What goes around comes around VS. Opposites attr attract

So what’s been on my knowledge is what seems to be a contradiction but both seem to be true. It seems like in certain situations what I bring out comes back to me, for example if I show interest in what my friends are doing they show interest in what I’m doing. But then there’s principles of if you aren’t affixed it comes back to you. Like almost being disinterested in what my friends are doing impels them more interested in what I’m doing because I’m not being disadvantaged. Idk lol I thoughts the answer is just be authentic and have pure intents. If you’re genuinely interested they’ll be genuinely interested. Is that the truth? Is that the existing legislation of give and return? It seems like in relationships sometimes the opposite is true. When one pushes too far the other drags away.

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